Hello, I have had my cat, Kitty, for a few months now. My friends rescued him and somehow he ended up at my house. I have never had a cat before but I do love him. I want to keep him but he has totally ripped up my furniture and he sheds everywhere! He opens cabinets even my refrigerator! Does anybody have any advice on how I can groom him and train him? I would hate to get rid of him but he has taken over my house and I need to restore some order.